Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Birthmom is 2cm dilated OMG

So yesterday i went to BM ultrasound at 9am. I was waiting inside the doctors office while she arrived and she did. she came in with her teacher and i got to meet her too! I gave both of them a big hug. She brought me some pictures of her family this included her mom, dad, sisters and her. She looks a lot like her mom i told her and her younger sister. Her mom is Caucasian with blond hair and green eyes. She has a step dad who is from Puerto Rico. Is funny cuz i have a step dad and i was born in puerto rico. They called her name and we went in. The nurses already know who i am and i feel more comfortable now with BM and i know she feels better with me because she seems a little bit more open with me now not as shy anymore. Well the doctor wanted to check her baby first before she got the ultrasound and for this we could not be in the room. So when doctor finished BM told me that she was 2cm dilated i was like WHAT!! She is only 27 weeks & 4days! She said that on Saturday she went to the emergency room for some bleeding, but that the doctor sent her home and told her that it was normal because her cervix just dropped. Yesterday they also did a ultrasound on the baby and he weighs 2lb 6oz. and is about 15inches long. So looks like the baby is growing, but he had some fluid on his kidneys that they want to continue to monitor that. They told BM she has to be on Strict bed rest so that she wont continue to dilate. They want her to see a specialist ASAP!! they want her to call ASAP for a appt and if she cant get in there then she needs to come back to this office.

I received a call from my agency after i left the doctors office and told me that how i felt about the situation and that if i want to continue to work with BM ? cuz they said i look upset i said NO i was worried for her and the baby that is all and that i want to continue to work with her. The agency said that BM will be moving from the center where she is at back home, because the center will not have a high pregnant girl on board, but that she will still be taking advantage of the center she still needs to ready books and do everything from her home.

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